自己找的对象,一开始会觉得很浪漫;相亲找的对象,刚开始可能不熟,但等两个人熟悉了,也可以制造浪漫。我曾经对相亲这件事很抵触,我觉得现在社会发展了,年轻人都时兴自由恋爱,相亲的旧风俗实在太落伍了。后来的亲身经历却改变了我的这一看法。在农村,姑娘小伙一到二十多岁只要不上学了,肯定就会有人来提亲了。开始先聊聊家常,过会儿就会问:“你家孩子二十多了吧,有对象了没,没有给你家孩子介绍一个呀?”如果你说没有,接下来几天肯定会 The object of their own search, at the beginning will feel very romantic; blind date to find the object may not be familiar at the beginning, but when the two are familiar, you can also create a romantic. I once contradicted this blind date. I think that now that the community has developed, young people are fashionable and free to love. The old habits of blind date are outdated. Later personal experience has changed my view. In rural areas, girls as young as one in their twenties as long as they do not go to school, there will certainly be someone to mention marriage. Let’s start by talking about the commonplace. We will ask after a while: “Your child has more than twenty, and there are no objects yet. Did not you introduce one to your family?” "If you say no, the next few days will be affirmative meeting