我国有句老话:“三年做鞋,鞋剩不下;三年抱孩子,能把孩子抱大。”说明我国历来重视对孩子特别是婴幼儿的照顾。近年来的研究证实了生命最初的几个月在儿童性格正常发展中的重要性。专家指出:母亲给婴儿的照顾过多,延长哺乳期或不让孩子哭一秒的做法,有碍于正常的适应性习惯的形成。照顾过分和缺乏照顾都是有害的。粗暴地对待孩子或满足他的所有愿望,也会给孩子留下不好的影响。照顾,应该着眼于使孩子养成各种良好的生活习惯。这不但是使孩子 My country has an old saying: “Three years to do shoes, shoes left no less than three years to hold children, children can hold big. ” Shows that our country has always attached importance to the children, especially infants and young children’s care. Recent research has confirmed the importance of the first few months of life in the normal development of children’s personality. Experts point out that mother’s over-care of the baby, prolonging her lactation or not allowing her child to cry for a second, hinders the formation of normal adaptive habits. Excessive care and lack of care are all harmful. Rough treatment of children or to meet all his wishes, but also to the children left a bad influence. Care should be focused on making children develop good habits of all kinds. This is not only to make children