《红楼梦》是一部“大旨谈情”的书,作者在其中描写了“意淫”这种情爱形式。宝玉是“意淫”的主要代表,他对身边的女儿关心、爱护,从而保护自己所追求的纯真与美好。而在当时的社会家庭中,“意淫”这样的情爱形式难以实现。因此,作者笔下的主人公宝玉最终只能选择出家,回到太虚幻境中,脱离这红尘世界,才能得到心里的安慰。 “Dream of Red Mansions” is a book titled “love affair”, in which the author describes the “obscenity” such a form of love. Baoyu is the main representative of “obscenity ”, he cares for his daughter around, love, so as to protect their pursuit of innocence and beauty. In the social family at that time, the form of love such as “obscenity” was hard to come by. Therefore, the author’s hero Baoyu finally can only choose a monk, back to the illusion of the world, out of this world of dust, in order to get the comfort of my heart.