这两天幼升小热火朝天,民办学校挖空心思考家长,家长歇斯底里吐槽,不由想起自己一路走来的历程。中国传统文化有“光宗耀祖”一说,因为孩子建功立业了,长辈乃至祖辈都大有面子。过去,这种说法主要是对孩子的训诫,要求他们为人处世有所成就。不知何时开始,它变成了父母对自己的指令,孩子的成长成为父母的镜子,从里面看到的满眼都是自己的“光耀”。为父母的面子,孩子必须成功,而且越早越好,巴不得从娘胎里就自 These two days of young ups and downs, private schools hollow-minded parents, parents hysteria Tucao, could not help but think of their own journey along the course. Chinese traditional culture has “Light Zong Yaozu ” said, because the children build foundation, elders and even grandchildren have a great face. In the past, this argument was mainly about children’s admonitions, requiring them to accomplish what they have done. I do not know when it started, it became a parent of their own instructions, the child’s growth as a mirror of their parents, from the inside to see all eyes are their own “glorious ”. For the parents face, the child must succeed, and the sooner the better, must not be from the womb