“自我中心”是由著名的早期教育家皮亚杰于他所著的《儿童的语言和思维》(1923年)一书中提出的,指儿童不能区别自己的观点和别人的观点,不能区别自己的活动和对象的变化,把一切都看作与自己有关,是自己的一部分。从“自我中心”向“脱自我中心”发展的过程是孩子社会性发展的必经之路,也是一个逐渐的过程。超越了自我中心的孩子,能顺利地发展健康的自我意识、结交同伴、发展自尊等等,进而形成积极的人格特点,比如独立、富有责任感、热情、好奇、勤奋、勇敢、坚强、耐心、细致。 “Self Center ” by the famous early educator Piaget in his book “Children’s Language and Thinking” (1923) in a book that children can not distinguish their own views and other people’s point of view, can not Differentiate your own activities and changes in the object, regard everything as yourself, as part of yourself. The process of development from “self-centeredness” to “self-centeredness” is the only way for children’s social development and also a gradual process. Beyond self-centered children, developing healthy self-awareness, making friends, developing self-esteem, etc., can lead to positive personality traits, such as being independent, responsible, enthusiastic, curious, hardworking, brave, strong, patient, meticulous .