编者按：说“不”，即对孩子的某种在家长看来不尽合理的要求表示拒绝，这确是一件不易把握的事情。要求与满足要求之间总是存在着某种差距，总是涉及方方面面的问题，诸如孩子与家长的心理状态、家庭的经济状况，说“不”的场合与时机的选择，以及说“不”的后果和运用何... Editor’s Note: To say “no” means to refuse a child’s request that some parents appear to be unreasonable. This is indeed a difficult task to grasp. There is always a gap between requirements and fulfillment of requirements, always involving various aspects such as the psychological state of children and parents, the economic situation of the family, the choice of occasion and opportunity for saying “no”, and the saying “no” The consequences and use of what ...