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A high school history teacher once told us, “If you make one close friend in school, you will be most fortunate. A true friend is someone who stays with you for life.“___1___teaches that he was right. Good friendship is just not easily___2___．
It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for a___3___friendship to___4___. However, there can be___5___disagreement on the need for each of us to think carefully about the kind of friendship we want．
To most of us, friendships are considered very important, but we need to have clear in our___6___the kinds of friendship we want. Are they to be close or___7___at arm’s length？ Do we want to___8___ourselves or do we want to walk on the surface？ For some people, many friendships on the surface are___9___enough—and that’s all right. But at some point we need to___10___that our expectations are the same as our friends’ expectations. The sharing of___11___experience___12___our tears as well as our dark dreams is the surest way to deepen friendships. But it___13___be undertaken(进行) slowly and carried on only if there are___14___of interest and action in return．
What are some of the___15___of friendship？ The greatest is the attraction to expect too much too soon. Deep relationships___16___time. Another “major difficulty” is the selfishness to think one “possesses” the other, including his time and attention. Similarly, friendships___17___actions in return. In___18___words, you must give as much as you take. Finally there is a question of taking care of. Unless you spend ___19___time together, talking on the phone, writing letters, doing things together, friendships will die___20___．
1. A. KnowledgeB. Teachers
C. ExperienceD. Parents
2. A. understoodB. formed
C. realizedD. produced
3. A. trueB. common
C. deeplyD. actual
4. A. designB. intend
C. developD. appear
5. A. noB. some
C. anyD. none
6. A. heartsB. thoughts
C. actionsD. minds
7. A. remainedB. left
C. keptD. stayed
8. A. ownB. owe
C. shareD. spare
9. A. thatB. very
C. quiteD. not
10. A. make sureB. remember
C. expectD. check out
11. A. socialB. ordinary
C. goodD. personal
12. A. includesB. to include
C. includingD. included
13. A. canB. need
C. willD. must
14. A. marksB. sights
C. scenesD. signs
15. A. difficultiesB. differences
C. advantagesD. things
16. A. costB. spend
C. askD. take
17. A. requireB. request
C. dependD. suggest
18. A. someB. many
C. otherD. different
19. A. reasonableB. comfortable
C. lessD. a lot
20. A. forB. away
C. outD. From
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It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough for a___3___friendship to___4___. However, there can be___5___disagreement on the need for each of us to think carefully about the kind of friendship we want．
To most of us, friendships are considered very important, but we need to have clear in our___6___the kinds of friendship we want. Are they to be close or___7___at arm’s length？ Do we want to___8___ourselves or do we want to walk on the surface？ For some people, many friendships on the surface are___9___enough—and that’s all right. But at some point we need to___10___that our expectations are the same as our friends’ expectations. The sharing of___11___experience___12___our tears as well as our dark dreams is the surest way to deepen friendships. But it___13___be undertaken(进行) slowly and carried on only if there are___14___of interest and action in return．
What are some of the___15___of friendship？ The greatest is the attraction to expect too much too soon. Deep relationships___16___time. Another “major difficulty” is the selfishness to think one “possesses” the other, including his time and attention. Similarly, friendships___17___actions in return. In___18___words, you must give as much as you take. Finally there is a question of taking care of. Unless you spend ___19___time together, talking on the phone, writing letters, doing things together, friendships will die___20___．
1. A. KnowledgeB. Teachers
C. ExperienceD. Parents
2. A. understoodB. formed
C. realizedD. produced
3. A. trueB. common
C. deeplyD. actual
4. A. designB. intend
C. developD. appear
5. A. noB. some
C. anyD. none
6. A. heartsB. thoughts
C. actionsD. minds
7. A. remainedB. left
C. keptD. stayed
8. A. ownB. owe
C. shareD. spare
9. A. thatB. very
C. quiteD. not
10. A. make sureB. remember
C. expectD. check out
11. A. socialB. ordinary
C. goodD. personal
12. A. includesB. to include
C. includingD. included
13. A. canB. need
C. willD. must
14. A. marksB. sights
C. scenesD. signs
15. A. difficultiesB. differences
C. advantagesD. things
16. A. costB. spend
C. askD. take
17. A. requireB. request
C. dependD. suggest
18. A. someB. many
C. otherD. different
19. A. reasonableB. comfortable
C. lessD. a lot
20. A. forB. away
C. outD. From
（江苏省宜兴中学 钱帆提供）