父母是孩子的第一任老师,家庭环境对孩子心灵的塑造有着不可替代的影响。然而令人忧虑和不安的是,目前家庭教育的方式还普遍存在着相当严重的问题。对孩子的期望值过高在社会竞争日益激烈的今天,希望孩子从小就有非常突出的表现,这本是可以理解的。但不少父母对孩子智慧成就期望值过高,往往将目光仅盯在分数和升学上,而忽视了孩子整体素质的培养。从年龄上看,幼儿和中小学生的家长多在25—45岁之间,他们大多成长于“文革”时代,曾失去很多 Parents are the children’s first teachers, the family environment has an irreplaceable influence on children’s soul shaping. However, it is worrisome and disturbing that there are still quite serious problems in family education at present. Expectations for children too high In today’s increasingly competitive society, I hope children have a very prominent performance, this is understandable. However, many parents expect their children’s wisdom achievements too often, and they often focus their attention on the scores and the progression to higher education while neglecting the cultivation of children’s overall quality. In terms of age, most of the children of toddlers and primary and secondary students are between the ages of 25 and 45, most of whom grew up in the “Cultural Revolution” era and have lost a lot