适度嫉妒实际上与“眼热”或羡慕一样,也是有一定动力的。恰到好处的嫉妒心可以升华或转化为一种理想或抱负。不要让妒火消耗掉你所拥有的“能量”,而是学会借嫉妒之力来增强自己的力量。 增强“推动力”。当发现别人超越自己,心生嫉妒,你可能会暗自下决心,赶超“对手”。 克服自满情绪。你曾经是出色的,但如果一直“遥遥 Moderate jealousy, like “hot eyes” or envy, is also somewhat motivated. Just right jealousy can sublimate or turn into an ideal or ambition. Do not let jealousy consume the “energy” you have, but learn to use the power of jealousy to strengthen yourself. Enhance the “driving force.” When you find others beyond yourself, jealous, you may secretly make up your mind to catch up with the “opponent.” Overcome complacency. You used to be excellent, but if it has been “far away.”