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西方社会的一大忌讳是,打听对方(特别是女性)的年龄。中国古代文人,也曾感叹:“青春不觉书边过,白发无端镜上来”(宋·秦观《答曾存之》)。看来,年轻,是古往今来中外人士的共同追求。年轻,相对于年幼、年迈而言。按现代社会约定俗成的看法,可分为青春期、青年期、中年期三个阶段,构成了年轻三部曲,曲曲主题鲜明、美妙:单纯的焦虑,创造的经历;成熟的收获。青春期是儿童期与青年期之间的过度时期,约12-20岁。这是生命的第二个10年,从父母的情绪联系中挣脱出来,从连环画中走向了经典,逐渐明白了社会生活的方方面面,感受到一个突然扩大了的世界,遇到了新的思想、概念、价值,各种类型的人,迫切需要表现自已,要自我决定,想干一番惊天动地的事业。
A big taboo in Western society is to ask about the age of each other (especially women). Ancient Chinese literati, have also lamented: “youth feel over the book, white hair endless mirror ” (Song Qin Guan “A saved”). It seems that young people are the common pursuit of people from all over the world. Young, relative to young, old age. According to the conventions of modern society, it can be divided into three stages: adolescence, adolescence and middle age, which forms the young trilogy. The theme of the melody is distinct and wonderful: simple anxiety, experience of creation, and mature achievement. Adolescence is an excessive period between childhood and adolescence, about 12-20 years of age. This is the second decade of life, breaking away from the emotional connection of parents and moving from a comics to a classic. It gradually understands every aspect of social life, experiences a world that has suddenly expanded, and encounters new ideas and concepts , Value, various types of people, the urgent need to express themselves, to self-determination, want to do something earth-shattering cause.