凡是孩子因疏忽大意、缺乏经验、自制力差等而造成的危害集体或他人的行为,称为“过失行为”。幼儿的过失行为往往没有预谋或不良动机,所以又称“无意过失”。无意过失后果虽不严重,但会造成他人一定的损失和痛苦。作为家长,应正确对待孩子的无意过失。首先,要冷静地面对孩子的无意过失行为。孩子的过失行为常令家长烦恼和气愤。一个人在恼怒中情绪容易激动,处理事情就会有失偏颇。因此,明智的做法是冷静下来,耐心地倾听孩子的诉说,从孩子“消极”的行为中寻找积极的因素,对孩子的过失行为作出实事求是的判断。如冬天到了,孩子怕金鱼在冰凉的水里冻坏身体,就兴致勃勃地把金鱼缸搬到外面去晒太阳,由于人小用力不当,玻璃缸摔坏了。这时如果家长把孩子揍一顿,显然于事无补, Any behavior that is harmed to the collective or to others caused by negligence, lack of experience, poor self-control by children, etc. is called “negligence.” Children’s negligence is often unpredictable or unfriendly motives, it is also known as “no intentional negligence.” Although the consequence of unintentional negligence is not serious, it will cause some loss and suffering to others. As a parent, children should be treated correctly inadvertent negligence. First, calmly face the child’s unintentional negligence. Children’s negligence often annoys parents with annoyance. Emotions in a person easily excited, deal with things will be biased. Therefore, it is wise to calm down and patiently listen to the children’s complaints, look for positive factors from the children’s “negative” behavior and make realistic judgments on their child’s negligence. If the winter is over, the child is afraid of the goldfish freezing in the cold water and destroying the goldfish bowl to the sun. Due to the improper manpower, the glass jar breaks. At this time if parents beat their children meal, apparently helpless,