每个人的行为都有其目的和动机。一般来说,和成人一样,孩子的行为目的通常有四种:获得注惫力获得注意力:我的父亲年纪大退休之后,身体常常有很多地方不舒服。我常对他说:“爸爸你没病。”可是他坚持说有病,每次总要住几天医院。于是,儿子、女儿、媳妇、女婿全回来看他,病床成了注意的焦点,他的心里才稍得安慰。孩子又如何获得注意力呢?老大用成就感,唱 Everyone’s behavior has its purpose and motivation. In general, as adults, there are usually four types of children’s behaviors: gaining attention and getting attention: My father often has a lot of places uncomfortable after his retirement. I often say to him: “Dad you are not ill. ” However, he insisted that sick, always have to live a few days at the hospital. So, son, daughter, daughter-in-law, son-in-law came back to see him, the bed became the focus of attention, his heart was only a little comfort. How to get attention of children? Boss sense of accomplishment, sing