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做父母的看到自己的孩子与同性结伴相处,一起玩耍,一起出行,一起做作业,往往格外放心,而且以为这是孩子健康成长的证据。有的父母还认为,孩子与同性伙伴感情笃厚、过从甚密是正常的,这样就阻止了孩子过早地交异性朋友,有助于防止孩子恋爱。特别是对于十三四岁的孩子来说,这无异于天大的好事,绝无非议的道理。即使孩子发展到与同性伙伴同吃同睡,有些亲昵举止父母也绝不在意,认为那是绝对安全的。父母的头脑中一般都有一根防范恋爱的弦,而且这根弦总是绷得紧紧的(特别是对女孩子更是如此),随时准备把孩子的恋爱消灭在萌芽之中。防止孩子恋爱这根弦绷紧可以理解,然而,以为只要孩子与同性结伴玩耍,就安全可靠了,这是个巨大的认识误区。因为发生在同性之间的恋爱——同性恋一样会影响年幼无知的孩子们。
Parents to see their children get along with the same sex, play together, travel together, homework, often extra assured, and that this is the child’s healthy growth evidence. Some parents also believe that children with same-sex partners benevolent, very close to the normal, thus preventing the child premature sex friends, helps to prevent the children fall in love. Especially for the 13-year-old children, this is tantamount to a great good thing, there is absolutely no objection. Even if a child develops to eat and sleep with a same-sex partner, some parents behave in no other direction and think it is absolutely safe. The parents’ minds generally have a chord against love, and the string is always tight (especially for girls), ready to put the child’s love in the bud. It is understandable to prevent children from falling in love. However, when children play with the same sex, they are safe and reliable. This is a huge misunderstanding. Because of the love between same-sex - homosexuality will affect young and ignorant children.