有这样一个例子:一个美国男孩在体育课上练习跳绳,努力跳了半天还是跳不好,下课了,尽管他看到几乎所有的孩子都比自己跳得好,但他一点儿也不沮丧。他说:“没关系,我知道即使我跳不好我爸爸也照样喜欢我。另外我做别的事情比跳绳要好。”美国学者认为这 There is an example: an American boy practicing a skipping rope in physical education class, trying hard for a long time to jump or not, after class, although he saw almost all the children jumping better than himself, but he was not depressed at all. He said: “Never mind, I know my father likes me even if I can not jump, and I do other things better than skipping.” American scholars think this