小时候,常听母亲念叨一句话,“生的儿女不如我,要那东西干什么;生的儿女强过我,要那东西干什么”。开始我以为这话是母亲自己说的。后来到福州参观林则徐纪念馆,才知道林则徐也有一副教子联:“子孙若如我,留钱做什么?贤而多财,则损其志。子孙不如我,留钱做什么?愚而多财,益增其过。”林则徐已经把话说得很明白了:子孙要是贤德而聪慧,把钱留给他,反而堕其斗志;要是愚蠢而懒惰, When I was a child, I often heard my mother read a few words. “My children are not as good as me, what I want to do. My children are stronger than me, and what do I want to do?” At first I thought this was the mother’s own self. Later, I visited the Memorial of Lin Zexu in Fuzhou and learned that Lin Zexu also had a coaching staff: “If my children and grandchildren left me money, what would you do if I left the money? Wealth, benefits increased its. ”" Lin Zexu has put it very clearly: if the descendants virtuous and intelligent, leaving the money to him, but fall to his morale; if stupid and lazy,