诉苦其实是很现代的反应。不难发现,现代人发掘出许多的苦,且善夸张其辞、以己推人,屡遭不幸的现代中国人,尤其如此。比如说女子缠足的问题,此风最早的源头大致是取悦式、献媚式的的表达,后世之风行,也跟女子羞于表达自己的隐秘想法有关——如果世人皆爱小脚,人们会 Complaint is actually a very modern reaction. It is not hard to find that modern people have unearthed many bitternesses and exaggerated their speeches. This is especially true for the modern Chinese, who has been repeatedly pushed by misfortune. For example, the issue of woman’s foot-binding, the earliest source of this wind is generally pleasing, flattering expression, the popularity of later generations, but also to women ashamed to express their own secret idea - if everyone loves feet, people will