嫉妒心,人皆有之。有的人,容不得别人比自己强,看到别人进步,就打心眼里别扭,甚至出现既害人又害己的错误行为,而有的人能够正确认识自己与他人的短长,把羡慕、嫉妒之心转化为努力提高自己的动力。人与人之间为什么有这样大的差异呢?分析心理学家认为,作为一种负性情绪,嫉妒是一种普遍的社会心理现象。它是指因为自己的才能、名誉、地位或境遇等被他人超越,或彼此距离缩短时,所产生的一种由羞愧、愤怒、怨恨等组成的情绪体验。这种情绪带有明显的敌意甚至会产生攻击诋毁行为,不但危害他人,给人际关系造成极大 Jealousy, everyone has it. Some people can not allow others to be stronger than themselves. When others see progress, they are struggling to find fault in their eyes and even wrong behaviors that harm both themselves and others. Some people can correctly recognize their shortcomings with others and their envy The jealousy turns into an effort to improve one’s motivation. Why is there such a big difference between people? Analytic psychologists believe that, as a negative emotion, jealousy is a common social psychological phenomenon. It refers to a feeling of shame, anger, resentment, etc. resulting from the surpassing of one’s own ability, reputation, status or circumstances, or shortening of one another’s distance. Such emotions with obvious hostility may even result in attacks against slander, not only endangering others but also greatly interpersonal relationships