东子老师: 我经常在《婚育与健康》上看到您的“心理热线”专栏,也就有了向您诉苦的愿望。我初恋失败后,对爱情失望到了极点,但迫于父母的压力,在他们的安排下与一位中学老师结了婚。婚后,我俩的感情很不和谐,他当初之所以愿意和我结婚,是因为我是独女,有房子。这桩婚姻从一开始就是错误的。作为一个城里长大的女人,我对他这种乡巴佬的一些作风习惯很是讨厌,嫌他没情调,常 Ichiko teacher: I often see your “psychological hotline ” column on “marriage and childbearing and health”, also have the desire to complain to you. After my first love failed, I fell to the extreme of disappointment with love, but under the pressure of my parents, I was married to a middle school teacher under their arrangement. After marriage, our feelings are not harmonious, and he was willing to marry me because I was single daughter, a house. This marriage was wrong from the beginning. As a woman growing up in the city, I used to hate some of his style habits as a country bumpkin