老家的人好讲礼性。礼性是湘地流行的一个词,含义相当于礼貌、教养之类。小时候去外婆家,母亲总要千叮万嘱:路上见了认识的人要喊;到了外婆家要边敲门边喊“外婆”;外婆煮了什么好吃的,不可光顾一个人吃,得讲点客气,多叫外婆吃……在外面做客有规矩,在家里也规矩甚多。比如吃饭时声音不能太响,夹菜只能夹自己面前的;过年那两天,每餐都必须父母先动筷,孩子才可以端碗;来了客人,首先要 Home is good manners. Ritual is a popular word in Xiang, meaning is equivalent to polite, upbringing and the like. When I was young, I went to grandma’s and my mother always gave orders: those who met on the road wanted to shout. When grandmothers were knocking at the door, they shouted “grandmother’s” grandmother boiled what delicious, can not patronize a person to eat , Have to point polite, multi-grandmother eat ... ... outside the rules of the guests, but also many rules at home. For example, when eating the sound can not be too loud, clip food can only clip in front of their own; the New Year that two days, each meal must be parents first chopsticks, children can bowls; to the guests, first of all