刚才和一位家长在QQ上聊天,谈起了教育孩子的事。前一段时间,我给这位家长出了不少主意,而这些主意也挺有效果。于是,这位妈妈一再道谢,并诚恳地说平时极少给人添麻烦,这次是迫不得已才会找我帮忙。看来,这位母亲平时什么事都尽量自己解决,从不轻易求人。我说:“不用谢!从现在开始学习给别人添麻烦吧,只要能解决孩子的问题。”对于别人的帮助,有些人乐于接受,并在接受帮助的过程中交朋友、回报他人。有些人则会 Just chatting with a parent on the QQ, talked about the education of children. Some time ago, I gave the parents a lot of ideas, and these ideas are quite effective. As a result, the mother repeatedly said thanks and sincerely said that very rarely give people trouble, this is forced to find help. It seems that the mother usually do everything possible to solve their own problems, and never ask for help. I said: “No thanks! From now on learn to give others trouble, as long as the child can solve the problem. ” For others to help, some people are willing to accept, and in the process of helping make friends, return to others. Some people will