作为心理咨询师,我应邀为许多报刊做专栏撰稿人,也接待了许多来访的朋友,知道了许多家教故事。在本文中我想和朋友们“实话实说”。如果您是一位特别想让孩子成为“人上人”或“超人”的父母,那么请您不必费心关注本文,因为心理咨询师关注的仅仅是怎样让孩子成为一个“人中人” As a counselor, I was invited to be a columnist for many newspapers, a host of visiting friends, and many tutoring stories. In this article I would like to “tell the truth” with my friends. If you are a parent who especially wants to make your child a “human being” or a “superhuman”, then you do not have to pay attention to this article, because the psychological counselors are only concerned with how to make children become a “human”