结婚以前,我以为怀孕是件很不易的事情,没想到婚后的第二个月我便怀孕了。一年后,我们有了一个可爱的女儿,于是我们开始采取男用工具避孕,可我爱人总是拒绝采用这种方法,他对我说,那就好比是穿着雨衣洗澡,感觉一点儿不爽。我只好由着他,小心翼翼地掐算着安全期。 Before I got married, I thought pregnancy was a hard task. I did not expect to get pregnant the very next month after my marriage. A year later, we had a lovely daughter. So we started contraception with male tools. However, my lover always refused to adopt this method. He told me that it was like showering in a raincoat and feeling a little uncomfortable. I had to go by him, carefully pinching the security period.