“爱”和“分离”是人生的永恒主题,这两个似乎矛盾的话题,在养育孩子的过程中,因培养他们走向独立而变得统一起来。爱孩子,最终要让他成为他自己。独立,这是任何人从出生起就开启了的航程。成长中的独立机会孩子自出生起就是一个独立的个体。不会说话的孩子先用“啼哭”“尖叫”发表了独立宣言,生存问题解决之后就开始从“我要”过渡到“我来”。他们表达自 “Love ” and “Separation ” are the eternal themes in life. The two seemingly contradictory themes are unifying in the process of raising children and by cultivating them toward independence. Love children, eventually let him be his own. Independence, this is the voyage that anyone has started from birth. Growing Independent Opportunity Children have been an independent individual since they were born. The non-talking children first published the Declaration of Independence with “crying” and “screaming.” After the solution to the problem of existence, they began to transition from “I want ” to “I am coming ”. They express themselves