心语姐姐:我老公有外遇十几年了,今年春节被我发现。我们都52岁,十几年前就无法过性生活,老公说他对我有心理障碍,我觉得他有器质方面的问题。除了这方面,我们其他方面都挺好。现在我要他保证以后不去外面找女人,他不愿意,理由是他无法控制自己的行为。这样的男人我还留着干什么?我真的很痛苦。小同小同妹妹:一个生理正常的男人,十几年和 Xinyu sister: my husband has more than 10 years of affair, this year I was found on the Spring Festival. We are 52 years old, more than ten years ago can not live sex, my husband said he had a psychological barrier to me, I think he has the problem of quality. In addition to this, we are very good in other respects. Now I want him to promise he will not go outside looking for a woman. He does not want to because he can not control his own behavior. Such a man I still keep doing? I am really painful. Small Tongduanmei sister: a physiologically normal man, a dozen years and