当前,婚娴喜庆不切实际地大讲排场,已经成为一种突出的畸形的社会现象,甚至可算是一种社会“公害”,许多父母在青年人的攀比中苦不堪言,更多人则在“婚礼摊派”中受害,即使是一时受益的当事人,在日后的生活中也常被还不清的人情债压得抬不起头来。为引起全社会对这一“公害”高度重视,笔者试根据常德市青年结婚费用抽样调查资料对这一问题作一粗略探讨。 At present, wedding unpleasant festivals speak out loud and clear, has become a prominent social phenomenon of deformity, and even can be regarded as a social “public nuisance”, many parents miserable young people in the competition, more people Victims in the “wedding appalling”, even temporary beneficiaries, are often underestimated in the future life. In order to arouse the whole society to attach great importance to this “public hazard”, the author tries to make a rough discussion on this issue based on the sample survey data of the marriage costs of young people in Changde City.