家长要注意:赏识教育,过犹不及。我们在给孩子自信心的同时,“最”和频繁的称赞逐渐让孩子产生了一种优越感,甚至是自负。孩子不能接受达不到自己预期的表现,凡事要求尽善尽美,不仅要赢而且要大获全胜。其实,首先要调整的是家长的心态,我们要真诚地和孩子交流,如果孩子真的做得很好,我们可以表扬,和孩子一起总结经验,让孩子产生积极前进的动力;如果孩子做得不够好,我们要耐心地和孩子一起总结教训,分析原因,鼓励孩 Parents should pay attention: appreciation of education, too far. At the same time of giving our children self-confidence, we are gradually giving our children a sense of superiority and even conceit. Children can not accept the performance of less than their expectations, everything requires perfect, not only to win and to victory. In fact, we must first adjust the mentality of parents, we should sincerely communicate with the children, if the child really well done, we can praise, and children together to sum up experience, so that children have a positive motivation; if children do Not good enough, we should patiently sum up lessons with the children, analyze the reasons to encourage children