平时,常可以听到一些家长批评孩子,对孩子左不顺眼、右不称心,弄得孩子很为难。其实,做家长大可不必对孩子吹毛求疵。一个人从出生到成人,其间要经历无数次的“失败”,对于成长中的孩子,是不可多得的锻炼。有道是:多一分感受,多一点经验;多一点积累,多一分成熟。相反,如果家长对孩子过于“严格要求”,则有碍于孩子的健康成长,其危害性表现在以下三方面:一、养成怯懦心理 父母对孩子经常吹毛求疵,久而久之,会使孩子缺乏主动性、积极性和自信心,对自己的能力产生怀疑,出现“我大概是不 Usually, you can often hear some parents criticize their children, dislike the children left, right displeasure, confused children very embarrassed. In fact, parents do not have to be child-sensitive. A person from birth to adult, during which to go through numerous “failures” for the growing children, is a rare exercise. Youdao is: more feelings, a little more experience; a little more accumulation, more mature. On the contrary, if parents are too “strict with their children,” it will impede the healthy growth of children. Its harmfulness is manifested in the following three aspects: First, to develop a timid mentality. Parents frequently criticize their children over the course of time, , Enthusiasm and self-confidence, doubts about their ability, there "I probably do not