对一直处于顺境的孩子做过于严厉的批评，可能会使孩子产生逆反心理，导致孩子不愿与家长沟通。家长与孩子的思维方式与背景经历的不一致是造成两者意见相左的重要因素。家长教育孩子的时候应当注意孩子的承受能力，注重教育的方式，一次不恰当的批评，可能会给孩子心灵投下阴影，成为家长与孩子之间关系的绊脚石。 Too harsh criticism of children who have been in good times may cause the child to become rebellious and lead to reluctance of the child to communicate with his parents. The inconsistency between parents’ and children’s way of thinking and background experience is an important factor that causes the two opinions to differ from each other. Parents should pay attention to their children’s ability to bear children’s time, pay attention to the way of education, and improper criticism may cast a shadow over children’s minds and become a stumbling block to the relationship between parents and their children.