我们都会冲孩子发火,然后内疚自责。因为我们都是人,不是神。Q:我是一个独抚妈妈。一个人带孩子真是很累,很多时候累得控制不住自己情绪,很容易发火。就说前几天吧,带孩子去理发,我正等着呢,他拿着人家理发店里的跳绳跑出去玩了。外边下着雨,淋湿他自己不说,还把人家的跳绳弄得脏兮兮的。我跟孩子说了好几回,让他赶紧进来,他就是不听。我的火就上来了,冲出去把他吼了一通,把他拎进来,摁到椅子上,才算消停。看着他委屈的样子,我又后悔 We will rush children angry, and then remorse guilty. Because we are human beings, not gods. Q: I am a dodge mother. A person with a child is really tired, often tired and unable to control their emotions, it is easy to get angry. Just say a few days ago, with children to the barber, I was waiting for it, he ran out of the rope with someone else barber shop ran out. Raining outside, wet himself not to mention, but also people’s skipping messy dirty. I told the children several times, let him come in quickly, he just did not listen. My fire came up, rushed out to roar him, carry him in, go to the chair, stop cocoon. Looked at his grievances look, I regret it