人生在世,和“自己”相处最多,打交道最多,却往往悟不透“自己”。人走上坡路时,往往把自己估计过高,似乎一切所求的东西都能唾手可得,甚至把运气和机遇也看做自己身价的一部分而喜不自胜。人在不得意时,又往往把自己估计过低,把困难 Living in the world, and “self” get along most, dealing with most, but often unable to understand “own”. When people go up the road, they tend to overestimate themselves. It seems that everything that they seek is readily available, and even luck and opportunity are seen as part of their worth. When people are unwilling, they tend to underestimate themselves and make it difficult.