夫妻长年生活在一起,难免会因为这样那样不愉快之事而生气。可是,面对生气,有的动辄以离婚相要挟,有的甚至于不惜挥拳动腿,以“武力镇压”而后快……这些做法,也许初有“效果”。但却后患无穷:轻则让其心存芥蒂,伤害感情;重则危及婚姻的根基,反目为仇。当然生气也并非洪水猛兽,甚至有时适度地生生气也未必不是好事,或许还能成为夫妻之间融洽感情的润滑剂。 Couples living together for many years, will inevitably be angry because of such an unpleasant thing. However, in the face of anger, some are often threatened with divorce, and some even waver in their arms and arms to suppress the “force” and then fast ... ... These practices may be the beginning of “effect.” However, there are endless troubles: letting them have their own grudges, hurting their feelings, while endangering the foundations of marriage, turn against enemies. Of course, angry is not a scourge, and even moderate sometimes angry is not necessarily not a good thing, and may also become a harmonious feeling between the couple lubricants.