编辑同志: 我的女儿本是一个活泼开朗的孩子,读三年级时因搬家转到了另外一所小学。期末,老师在家长通知书上写道:“性格不够开朗。”这使我非常吃惊。请问为什么会出现这种情况呢?作为家长,我能做些什么? 湖南云阳云阳同志: 孩子转学后性格改变是一种常见的现象,出现这种现象的原因是: 离开熟悉的环境产生失落感。孩子看待变迁并不像成人那样豁达,他们常常认为只有从小长大的地方才是家,于是常有这样一种现象:孩子搬到新居之后仍嚷着要回家。难以适应陌生的环境。孩子转到新的学校,周围都是陌生的面孔,同学们按原有的组织进行活动, Editor’s Comrade: My daughter was originally an entertaining child. When I was in third grade, I moved to another elementary school because of my move. At the end of the period, the teacher wrote in the parent’s notice: “I was very surprised at the lack of character.” I would like to ask why this happens? As parents, what can I do? Hunan Yunyang Comrade Yang Yunyang: personality changes after transfer is a common phenomenon, the reason for this phenomenon is: leave the familiar environment to produce Sense of loss. Children think changes are not as open-minded as adults. They often think that they only have a place where they grew up. So often there is such a phenomenon that children still clamor for going home after moving to a new home. Difficult to adapt to unfamiliar environment. Children to the new school, surrounded by strange faces, students according to the original organization activities,