诚实地说,我并不是在物质极端匮乏的环境中成长起来的。小时候,我的课外书比别的同学都要多;初中时,我开始有一点可以自由支配的零花钱;1994年,大学还没扩招,我爸自费送我去了一个南方的城市读书。这让我的邻居都感到惊奇:“为一个女孩子,花这么多钱……”对,你看出来了,我成长于一个重男轻女之风颇为严重的小城。我家算是比较好的,父母总是力求给我比较好的资源。奈何对于一个出身于中等家庭的无知孩童,爱攀比的、容易产生匮乏感的点,偏偏不是教育资源,而是别人眼中细枝末节的事。 Honestly, I am not growing up in an environment of extreme deprivation. When I was young, my extra-curricular book was more than my classmates. When I was in junior high school, I began to have a little pocket money that I was free to spend. In 1994, the university had not expanded its enrollment. My dad sent me to a city in the south for study at his own expense. It surprised my neighbors: “For a girl, spend so much money ... ” Yes, you see it, I grew up in a town of patriarchal style is quite serious. My family is better, parents always try to give me better resources. However, for a non-educated child born in a middle-class family, love comparisons, prone to lack of sense of point, it is not educational resources, but others minutiae.