现代农村教育存在的问题是：一方面随着改革开放的日益发展，农民外出打工的人数逐渐增加，家中只有老人孩子的家庭逐渐增多，真正能与孩子沟通的家长太少。即使在家的农村父母，也因经济收入不可观，一边在附近打临工，一边还干农活，也很少与孩子沟通。另一方面农村家长普遍缺乏基本的家庭教育知识，家庭教育方式简单、粗暴，家长与孩子平等交流与沟通不足，教育和管教方式以训斥、打骂为主。因而造成孩子性格内向、沉闷、不善与人交往，直接影响了农村孩子的心理发育。 一、采用多种方式，让学生与家长沟通 首先，鼓励学生说真话、说心里话，有问题学会与同学、老师沟通，建立一个和谐，平等，互助的集体。开展“求助信箱”实话实说”“我与我家”等活动，从侧面、正面了解学生心态，也让学生形成正确面对困 The problems in modern rural education are as follows: On the one hand, with the gradual development of reform and opening up, the number of migrant workers going out to work gradually increases. Only families with elderly children in their families gradually increase, and too few parents can really communicate with their children. Even though rural parents at home are not paying enough for their economic income, they also work as temporary workers while doing farm work, and rarely communicate with their children. On the other hand, parents in rural areas generally lack basic knowledge of family education. Family education methods are simple and crude. There is not enough communication and communication between parents and children. Education and discipline are mainly reprimanded and beaten. As a result, children’s introverted, dull and poor interpersonal relationships have a direct impact on the psychological development of rural children. First, adopt a variety of ways to allow students to communicate with parents First of all, encourage students to tell the truth, say something, learn to communicate problems with students and teachers to establish a harmonious, equal and mutual aid collective. To carry out “help mailbox” to tell the truth “” My home "and other activities, from the side, positive understanding of student mentality, but also allow students to form the correct face of sleepy