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既然情感没办法用“如何”来解决,那为什么我们还是不愿意在问题上多问几次彻底的“为何”?在创意课上,一位同学分享了一段儿时经验:“我忘了是几岁的时候,五六岁左右吧,爸爸妈妈常常说我是捡回来的。每晚爬上床后,他们那些话便不断在我的脑海里盘旋。然后,我开始观察自己的样子,每天花上很多时间对着镜子,看看自己跟他们的样子有哈不一样,区别在哪儿。因为小时候看过不少电视剧、故事书,都会讲到后母或后父怎样恶待不是亲生的孩子。我因此受到影响,除了害怕父母真的可能是养父养母外,又产生了不同的幻想,想象着爸妈捡我回来的原因,还有从哪里把我捡回来。”
Since emotion can not be solved by “how ”, then why do we still do not want to ask a few times thoroughly on the question “why ”? In the creative class, a classmate shared a period of childhood experience: “I forgot when I was a few years old and I was about five or six years old, and my mom and dad used to say that I was picking them up, and after they climbed into bed every night they kept hovering in my mind, and then I started to observe myself Looks like, spend a lot of time each day in front of the mirror to see if they look different from their ha, where is the difference .Because a child read a lot of TV series, story books, will tell the stepmother or stepfather how evil is not I was influenced by this, and apart from fearing that parents might really be adoptive parents, they also had different illusions, imagined why my parents picked me up, and where did I get them back. ”