纽约有一位心理医生,执业多年。他在即将退休时,归纳总结出对人生影响最大的四个字。头两个字是“要是”。他说,我有许多病人,把时间都花在缅怀既往上,后悔当初该做而没有做的事,“要是那次面试前准备充分一点就好了”“要是我当初怎样怎样就好了”……这些人沉湎于懊悔之中不 There is a psychiatrist in New York who has practiced for many years. When he was about to retire, he summed up the words that had the biggest impact on his life. The first two words are “if yes.” He said that I have many patients and I spend my time reminiscing on the past and regretting what I had to do without doing it. “If the interview is to be a little full before the interview,” “What if I did it?” ... These people are indulged in remorse