一位白领月薪6000,向我咨询:“是放弃工作一心一意回家相夫教子,还是请个保姆,自己工作?” 我问她为什么要回归家庭,她说:“没有了工作的压力,一心一意照顾宝宝,系统学习早期教育、哺育宝宝的知识,做到科学育儿,同时也减轻了丈夫的负担,使丈夫在外安心工作。”既然道理这样充分又为什么犹豫?我问。 她想了半天才说:我怕失去自我,在家里是一种相对静止的状态,在人才竞争的今天,停下来就意味着后退,当我又和朋友相聚在一起,再没有时尚的话题,缺乏新知识的沟通,在朋 A white-collar workers a monthly salary of 6000, to my advice: “is to give up one heart and soul to go home, or a nanny, their work?” I asked her why she should return to the family, she said: “There is no pressure to work wholeheartedly care Baby, systematically learning early education, nurturing baby’s knowledge, doing scientific childcare, and relieving her husband of the burden so that her husband can feel at ease outside the workforce. ”Why should he hesitate? She thought for a long time before saying: I am afraid to lose myself, at home is a relatively static state, in today’s talent competition, stop means to back down, when I and friends together, there is no fashion topic, Lack of new knowledge of communication, in friends