有一对在艰苦环境中长大的双胞胎兄弟,他们的父亲沉溺于酒精和毒品并时常虐待妻儿。这对双胞胎三十多岁时,心理学家对他们分别进行了采访。他们其中一个人成了靠救济金度日的瘾君子,他的妻子无法忍受他多年的虐待,离开了他。有一次在他清醒的状态下,心理学家问他:“你为什么这样对待自己 There is a twin brother who grew up in a difficult environment, whose father indulges in alcohol and drugs and often abuses his wife and children. When the twins were in their thirties, psychologists interviewed them separately. One of them became a drug addict on a bailout, and his wife could not stand his years of abuse and left him. Once in his sober state, the psychologist asked him: ”Why do you treat yourself like this