独生子女的时代,我们的孩子更需要培养其独立能力,家长则要有“该放手时则放手”的理念。有一项对北京市某小学学生的调查,问及遇到困难怎么办?97%的小学生都回答说找父母或老师。孩子们为什么不能自己尝试排除困难呢?他们缺乏的就是独立。 In the one-child age, our children need to develop their independent ability. Parents should also have the idea of ​​letting go when they let go. A survey of primary school students in Beijing asked how they encountered difficulties: 97% of the primary students replied to find a parent or teacher. Why can not children try to troubleshoot themselves? What they lack is independence.