董大夫: 我是一位农村妇女,头一胎生了个女孩,原本无忧无虑的我,一下子好像成了千古罪人。丈夫全家上下都把生女孩的“罪”归咎于我。甚至无端找碴打骂我和孩子,我真想一死了之,但又不忍心撂下孩子。柯大夫,能否告诉我,生男生女到底由谁定?尽管现在政策允许我生第二胎,但我敢生吗?又生个女孩咋办啊! Dong doctor: I am a rural woman, the first child gave birth to a girl, the original carefree me, all of a sudden seems to have become a sinner of the ages. The whole family of the husband blamed me on the “sin” of the girl. I can not even scold me and my child without any help, I really want to die, but I can not bear to kidnap my child. Ke doctor, can you tell me who the boys and girls in the end? Although the policy now allows me to have a second child, but I dare to give birth?