《对照记@1963》,三人写火车的那章,胡洪侠在《从此生活有了远方》里面有段话:要走了,父亲母亲送我到胡同口,还要往前送。我说:“你们回去吧,过年的时候我就回来了。”父亲说:“走吧走吧。想着写信回来。”停下了。母亲独自继续往前走。自行车走出老远了,我回头,见母亲还在往前走。我知道从此真的是出远门了:母亲送你有多远,你前面的路就有多远。雷平阳在《关于母亲的札记》里面同样有一个细 “Cross-reference 1963”, the chapter where the trio wrote a train, Hu Hongxia said in his article “There is a long way from this life.” To leave, his father and mother sent me to the alley and went forward. I said, “You go back and I’ll be back on the New Year.” “My father said: ” Let’s go Let’s write a letter back. “Stop. Mother walked alone. Bikes go all the way, I look back, see my mother is still moving forward. I know it is really a long way from here: how far the mother sent you, how far ahead of you. Lei Pingyang in the ”notes on the mother," there is also a fine inside