郑石岩,台湾著名的教育学者。多年来,郑石岩先生透过心理咨询接触了成百上千的个案,从这些经验中,他深深感受到教育的重要。如同他在书中所说: “每一个人的心中,都有一张蓝图;他用这张蓝图去比对,作为思考和抉择的参考。这张基本蓝图,大部分的内容来自个人早期的经验,而这些经验大部分是父母师长的身教结果。”他指出,孩子透过认同和学习,直接拷贝大人的行为态度再发扬光大。时代的变迁太快,不能再在一 Zheng Shiyan, a famous education scholar in Taiwan. Over the years, Mr. Cheng Shyan has approached hundreds of cases through psychological counseling. From these experiences, he deeply felt the importance of education. As he said in his book, “Everyone has a blueprint in his heart, and he uses it as a reference for thinking and making decisions. Most of this basic blueprint comes from early personal experience , And most of these experience is the result of parenting teachers and mentors. ”He pointed out that children through identity and learning, adults directly copy the attitude of behavior and then flourished. The changes of the times are too fast and can not be done anymore