孙丽在某杂志社当编辑,从大学毕业到如今已工作好几年了。孙丽很有才华,业务能力强,常常受到主编的夸奖。然而令人难以理解的是:她和周围的同事总也搞不好关系,今天和张三吵,明天和李四闹,甚至和她的顶头上司——编辑部主任,也处不好关系。主任让她这么做,孙丽偏偏非要那么做,许多事情明明需要向主任汇报和请示,可她却绕开主任直接找主编解决。主任和同事都觉得孙丽是个令人头疼,难以相处的人。而孙丽本人也对自己糟糕的人际关系感到苦恼,但她不知道自己的问题出在哪儿,也不知道该如何去改,一旦出现矛盾后,总是去找主编告状,一味地埋怨别人如何为难自己。 Sun Li, a magazine editor, graduated from college to now have been working for several years. Sun Li is very talented, strong in business, and is often praised by the editor. However, what is difficult to understand is that she and her colleagues around do not always have a good relationship. Today, they are noisy with Zhang San, tomorrow and Li Si-hao, and even her top boss, director of the editorial department. Director of her to do so, Sun Li happens to have to do so, many things clearly need to report to the director and consult, but she bypass the director directly to the editor to solve. Director and colleagues think Sun Li is a headache, difficult to get along with. However, Sun Li himself was distressed by her poor interpersonal relations. However, she did not know where her problem was and did not know how to change it. Once there was a conflict, she always went to the chief editor and blamed others for her blind allegiance Difficult to yourself.