研究“交往社会语言学”的坦嫩(Deborah Tannen)曾对纽约市人的言语交际风格作过观察,他概括为“高度卷入”,特点是重迭式的争先恐后,往往是一人还没有说完,另一位已接过话茬儿说起来,随后又一位掺合进来,踩上别人的话头就侃——其实,在我们这里,各种情形也并不少见。这说明人们普遍存在一种误解。认为只有说个不停才是交际、才是“卷 Deborah Tannen, who studies communicative sociolinguistics, once observed New York City people’s verbal communication style, which he summed up as being “highly entangled” and characterized by overlapping vocations, often one without saying After that, another who has taken over the story speaks up, and then another admires him and tramples on the words of others - in fact, it is not uncommon for us to be in a variety of situations. This shows that there is a widespread misunderstanding. Think only talk non-stop is communication, is the "volume