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cindy.lu0625@sina.com问:我的孩子3岁多,喜欢边玩玩具边吃饭,每顿饭都要吃很长时间。我们觉得这样对他的身体健康不利,可是如果硬把玩具夺走,他就大声哭闹。请问,这种情况如何处理才好?答:首先,家长一定要反思孩子为什么会这样。孩子并非天生如此,他的习惯都是在家长的放任中逐渐形成的。家长可能在有意或无意中给孩子建立了某些生活习惯,等到有一天突然意识到这样对孩子不好时,又会强迫他立即终止,一旦受到抵触,就把一切责任
cindy.lu0625@sina.com Q: My child is more than 3 years old and loves to eat while playing with toys. She has to eat for a long time each meal. We felt that this was not good for his health, but he cried aloud if he took the toy hard. Excuse me, how to deal with this situation? A: First of all, parents must reflect on why the child so. Children are not born like this, his habits are gradually formed in the parents’ laissez-faire. Parents may have intentionally or inadvertently established certain habits for their children and wait until one day suddenly realizes that they are not good for their children and will force him to terminate immediately. Once he is contradictory, he will take all responsibilities