“情商”(EQ)全称为“情绪智力商数”(Emotional Intelligence Quotient),指的是人的情绪智力的高低程度。学者们普遍认为,情商主要包括五种能力:(1)对情绪的自我认知感觉能力;(2)控制情绪能力;(3)自我激励能力:(4)控制冲动的能力;(5)调整人际关系能力。一些心理学家研究表明,在决定成功的诸多因素中,智商的作用仅占20％,80％取决于以情商为核心内容的非智力因素。智商只为个人成功提供了一种潜力,而情商却制约着智商发挥的程度和限度。 一、情商是成才活动的保障因素 情商能为成才主体提供良好的生理前提。众所周知,生理素质是主体进行成才活动的前提和基础,对主体成才活动起促进或延缓作用。情商的重 EQ is called “Emotional Intelligence Quotient” and refers to the level of human emotional intelligence. Scholars generally agree that EQ consists mainly of five abilities: (1) self-perceived ability to emotion; (2) emotional control ability; (3) self-motivation; (4) ability to control impulse; (5) Interpersonal skills. Some psychologists’ research shows that in many factors that determine success, IQ accounts for only 20% of the total, and 80% depends on non-intelligence factors that focus on emotional intelligence. IQ provides only one potential for personal success, while emotional intelligence restricts the extent and limits of IQ. First, the emotional intelligence is the safeguard factor for the activity of talent EQ can provide a good physical condition for the main body. As we all know, the physiological quality is the precondition and basis for the subject to become a talent activity, which can promote or defer the activity of the leader. Emotional weight