我和赵远谈婚论嫁的时候,婆婆提出,婚后想和我们同住,所以不打算为我们买新房,但可以给我买辆好一点的车,婚礼和彩礼也尽可能体面些。赵远将这意思一转达,我还没来得及发表意见,我妈就第一个站出来反对:“这绝对不行!婚礼彩礼都好商量,但房子一定要买。”我妈倒也不是多不讲理,只是作为过来人,她和我奶奶在同一屋檐下斗争了一辈子,知道婆媳相处的难,不想让我走她的老路。 When I talked about marriage with Zhao Yuan, my mother-in-law suggested that we should live with us after marriage so we did not intend to buy a new one for us but could buy a better car for me. The wedding and bridewealth were as decent as possible. Zhao Yuan will convey this meaning, I have not had time to express my views, my mother stood up against the first one: “This is absolutely not! Wedding salute are good to discuss, but the house must be bought.” "My mother is not much Unreasonable, just as a comeback, she and my grandmother in the same eternal struggle for a lifetime, knowing that daughter-in-law get along with the difficulty, do not want me to go her old way.