人际界线不清、暗示性高的人会接受别人的纠正,把自己的真实想法、感受和意图压抑掉。一个人越不了解自己、越压抑自己,越容易受暗示,越容易人际界线不清。这就不是拯救了,而是控制 Interpersonal boundaries, implied high people will accept others to correct, to suppress their true thoughts, feelings and intentions. The less you understand yourself, the more you suppress yourself, the more likely you are to be implied and the easier it is for you to be interpersonal. This is not saving, but controlling