赵忠心,北京师范大学教科所研究员,中国教育学会家庭教育专业委员会理事长、国家基础教育实验中心社区与家庭教育研究所所长。他认为,现代的孩子大多是独生子,特别是90后的独生子,以最“难教”著称。在现代的家庭教育中,往往会出现两种极端现象:一种是过分宠 Zhao Zhongxin, a researcher at Beijing Normal University, a chairman of the Family Education Committee of China Education Society, and a director of the Community and Family Education Research Institute of the National Basic Education Experiment Center. He believes that modern children are mostly singletons, especially after 90’s only son, known as the most difficult to teach. In modern family education, there are often two kinds of extreme phenomena that appear: One is excessive pet