和谐的婚姻,需要夫妻互相尊重和理解。而想要拥有和谐的性关系,也更加需要尊重和理解。尊重对方的生理特点,多多包容有的伴侣性需要比较多,要尽量适当地多给Ta一些机会。如果自己确实不想,可以用委婉的方式来拒绝。比如说:“我今晚没有心情,很想坐着和你聊聊天。”“我们拥抱一会儿,好吗?”“我其实更想和你看看电影……”有的伴侣性需要比较少, Harmonious marriage, need couples to respect and understand each other. And want to have a harmonious sexual relations, but also more need to respect and understanding. Respect each other’s physiological characteristics, a lot more inclusive sexual partners need more, as far as possible appropriate to give Ta a few more opportunities. If you really do not want, you can use euphemism to refuse. For example: “I did not feel tonight and wanted to sit and chat with you.” “We hugged for a while, okay?” “I actually want to see the movie with you ...” Partner sexual needs less,